The word “neighbourhood” is very important in Turkey as the word holds a very special concept in Turkish culture. Having good and close relationships with people in your neighbourhood goes along way and has a big significance on your quality of life within the country.
Being part of a neightbourhood means a sense of community which the Turkish feel very strongly about and with this also comes a set of customs that goes along with it.
The Turkish have a conept which is referred to as “imece” which means giving a helping hand. The Turkish are always helpful and will come to your aid if and when needed and in return will appreciate if you do the same for them. People throughout Turkey all came together when the country recently suffered from the horrific wiildfires. Many people contributed their time and effort to help those affected.
The Turkish live by a saying that “drinking a cup of Turkish coffee together will be a memory that will last 40 years.” So with this said the Turkish understand why drinking a cup of coffee or tea with a neighbour is so important. When you move into a new neighbourhood you will most likely be welcomed with a hot drink. Playing a game of “tavla” better known as backgammon is also a very Turkish thing to do. People enjoy playing a board game while enjoying a drink together.
There is something that the Turkish like to do, is a spontaneous “pop over” so don’t be surpised to have a knock on your door by a nieghbour perhaps to deliver gifts with traditional items such as pastries and sweets. If an event is happening at the time, or it is a specific religious date then treats, gifts and food will be dropped off around the neighbourhood. Another rule is if someone has given you a plate of food then you must return it but having filled it before hand. If you do get a knock on your door then make sure you are prepared for your unexpected guests. Showing some warm hospitality in return by offering your surprise guest a hot drink will go along way.
Another one of the Turkish customs is simlpey ask and you will recieve. Getting to know the people who work in the market and all other local retailers can be very beneficial. Not only is it a great way to get involved and to support local businesses, but it may pay off for you in return. You may find that your local market may deliver to your neighbour, doing door to door drop offs and even the local doctor may make rounds in the neighbourhood.
Finally the Turkish believe in not sweating the small stuff. The Turkish are known for being kind, considerate and patient. They are very optomistic in the fact that they always tend to look at the whole picture when faced with any troubles or differences. For example when say a child is being difficult and unruly, the Turkish just believe that they are just trying to have fun which is why you find Turkish children always playing outdoors, making friends within their neighbourhhod. When a special bond is formed between neighbours it is referred to as “mahalle arkada”, so all the outdoor fun and games help these bonds to develop. The Turkish are never ones to complain when seeing rowdy behaviour amongst kids outdoors, or if there is loud music, or a big get together with lots of people. The Turkish take everything in their stride.
Source: Daily Sabah
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